When you draft your essay, it’s a good idea to just write that story in the best way you know, and don’t worry about the “deeper meaning” of the subtext. If you try to insert the subtext consciously, the essay will probably suffer from a forced meaning and symbolism.
The real deeper meaning will emerge as you revise and polish. Be artful about revealing it in your writing. Too much information prevents the reader from discovering the subtext, and feels telly and forced.
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