A Memoir Not to Be Believed…

My old boyfriend’s first girl crush, Laura Munson, has recently written a very popular memoir, This Is Not The Story You Think It Is: A Season Of Unlikely Happiness. Her book’s instant popularity inspired The New York Times “Modern Love” essay, “Those Aren’t Fighting Words, Dear.” Here’s an excerpt:

“’I don’t love you anymore. I’m not sure I ever did.’ His words came at me like a speeding fist, like a sucker punch, yet somehow in that moment I was able to duck. And once I recovered and composed myself, I managed to say, ‘I don’t buy it.’ Because I didn’t. He drew back in surprise. Apparently he’d expected me to burst into tears, to rage at him, to threaten him with a custody battle. Or beg him to change his mind…. I really wanted to fight. To rage. To cry.  But I didn’t. Instead, a shroud of calm enveloped me, and I repeated those words: ‘I don’t buy it.’”

Laura had recently committed to a non-negotiable understanding with herself, she’d committed to “The End of Suffering”—meaning, she decided to take responsibility for her own happiness.  And she meant all of it.. . .

When Laura Munson’s essay appeared in the Modern Love column, it created a firestorm.  Readers sent it to their friends, therapists gave it to their patients, pastors read it to their congregations. People everywhere were struck by Munson’s wisdom. But how was Laura able to implement this strategy?  How was she able to commit herself to an “End of Suffering” in such a critical time?

At 40 years old, certain parts of Laura’s life were going exactly as planned—she had two wonderful children, a husband she adored, a cherished home.  Yet she and her husband, the once golden couple, weren’t so golden anymore.  And while Laura had come to peace with her life, her husband had not.

Poignant, wise, and often exceedingly funny, This Is Not The Story You Think It Is recounts Laura’s journey.  Shaken to her core after the death of her beloved father, after seeking guidance and solace in stacks of books and hours of therapy, Laura finally realized she had to stop basing her happiness on things outside of her control.  And once she had this key piece of wisdom, she realized she could withstand almost anything.

Written as Laura experiences her crises, moment by moment, sometimes breath by breath, This Is Not The Story You Think It Is is raw and searingly honest in the very best sense. Laura takes readers by the hand as they embark, together, on a journey—one in which the outcome is not known.  Filled with wisdom, truth, and heart—and a great tomato sauce recipe—it is a candid and incredibly powerful memoir that is unforgettable. See her blog, www.lauramunson.com

Be sure to schedule a 15-minute complimentary book coaching session via email: AuthorizeU@gmail.com.  If we begin working together, my eBook—Writing From Life: A Wise Guide to Publishing Your Memoirs—will be yours as part of the coaching package.


One thought on “A Memoir Not to Be Believed…

  1. lauramunson says:

    Jennifer– thanks for writing such a lovely review of my book. It deeply touched me. Now to more important things: WHO IS THIS OLD BOYFRIEND? At 44 these things bring a wee thrill. 🙂 yrs. Laura

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